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Bobbie Harte Shaw, MS LMFT 8/14/25 Bobbie Harte Shaw, MS LMFT 8/14/25

The Partner You Want to Be: Shifting Focus from Finding to Becoming

The most revolutionary thing you can do in dating is to stop asking "Are they right for me?" and start asking "Am I becoming the partner I want to be?" This shift in focus changes everything—not just how you show up in relationships, but the quality of connection you attract and create.

Bobbie Harte Shaw, MS LMFT 8/12/25 Bobbie Harte Shaw, MS LMFT 8/12/25

The Dating App Cycle: Why You Keep Deleting and Re-downloading

While it's easy to blame the apps themselves, the deeper issue often lies in how we approach dating altogether. Most of us download these apps seeking external validation and someone who understands us. We're focused entirely on finding rather than being.